UPDATE: so inside ther rtoledo2002 web vault I set my self as a takeover at my rtoledo2 email.
I got this in my rtoledo2 account
Roman Toledo has approved your emergency request. You may now login on the web vault and access their account.
I have read the instruction a bunch of times, but it does not tell me , how to log into the rtoledo2002 vault . do i try to log in using the email rtoledo2 or the email rtoledo2002
it’s the rtoledo2002 I am trying to takeover
I have a NEW bitwarden account under rtoledo2
OK I finally figured it out , I logged into my rtoledo2 account , went to emergency access and clicked the 3 dots and this time it had a takeover button , it let me change to a new passord
woohoo thank you all
IF anyone at bitwarden reads this , you really need to do a HOW TO step by step using 2 emails one for the address you are taking over one one for the grantee , and then showing how the grantee has to go back to the grantee emergency access tab and click on the grantors email 3 dots and click on takeover button
I did not see that in their HELP screens under this subject
consider this closed, hope someone in here can send this to them , I will do that to the last email I got today , BUT they seem to have a serious reading comprehension problem , even when you send the screen shots proving a point